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Jenny Lynn's avatar

I absolutely love this dear! It is exactly what I needed to hear right now in my life. I am choosing faith over fear and I am chasing my dream of making a living with my writing. I guess everyone here has that same dream. Most of all, I found you here. You are so beautiful and amazing Lavender. You inspired me with this piece of written art. You are amazing!

Lavender 🪷✨'s avatar

Jenny! My goodness you are so kind 💗✨

I appreciate you so much, and no words could ever express how grateful I am that we’re here in this beautiful community together!! And I’m here to cheer you on!! 👏👏👏 You are a WRITER!! You got this!!!

Matt DiGeronimo's avatar

Lavender, this piece is a powerful blend of personal courage and practical wisdom — thank you for sharing it with such honesty and grace.

Your reframing of fear as belief in a negative outcome versus faith as belief in a positive one is the kind of truth that sticks with you long after reading. I especially appreciated your definition of “ignorance” as simply a lack of knowledge — not judgment, just a place we all start from. That framing invites growth instead of shame, which is so needed in conversations like this.

And wow — the story about your former manager? Equal parts infuriating and enlightening. It takes deep self-awareness to transform that kind of experience into the fuel for reflection and growth, rather than resentment. The way you journaled your way to the roots of those fears is a blueprint for self-discovery.

I couldn’t agree more: our trials often are the vehicles for transformation, if we’re willing to pause, observe, and step forward — even if our hands are still shaking.

Thank you for modeling that journey. Subscribed and grateful to be on this path with you.

— Matt

Lavender 🪷✨'s avatar

My goodness, Matt! I am truly humbled by your reply. Thank you so much (first) for taking a moment to read my thoughts and about my journey. But additionally, thank you for ingesting it and reflecting it back to me.

My life journey has been a beautiful one thus far (yes, with some pretty unbelievable stops along the way! lol). I believe that sharing them is what allows for the full circle to transformation, so truly, I feel so grateful to share them here and with you.

Your words are truly beautiful, and I am very grateful to be on this journey with you. I’ve also subscribed and cannot wait to dive into your Substack!

Sending you lots of love and light today!

💜Lavender

Matt DiGeronimo's avatar

Hi Lavender. Thank YOU for sharing so authentically. I'm happy to have you as part of the "Beyond Platitudes." Would you consider participating in our two-word brainstorming game? When there are enough responses, I collaborate the results into a unique and fun piece of written art with credit to all collaborators.

https://open.substack.com/chat/posts/a4b05b6f-100f-4477-9d5f-a4dc6fb973e7

Lavender 🪷✨'s avatar

Absolutely, without a question! I’d be honored!

I just popped my response into the chat.

(And this is SO cool!! Thank you so much for inviting me to participate! 🙏✨)