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The Curious Coin's avatar

this took me too long to learn but it's such a powerful truth!

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Lavender 🪷✨'s avatar

My dear, I promise it was right on 'time' 🎉✨

This is wonderful news 💗✨

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Trish Nonya's avatar

Beautiful, and I love the reflection prompts!! We never really understand until we innerstand 🩵

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Lavender 🪷✨'s avatar

"We never really understand until we innerstand 🩵"

Reflecting it back to you - this is really is BEAUTIFUL!

Thank you so much for your feedback on the reflection prompts! I pour my heart into crafting those - because you said it SO beautifully, and it is SO true...

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Trish Nonya's avatar

Its truly my pleasure and thank you!! I'm happy we connected and look forward to reading more 🥰🥰🥰

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Bougie Hippie's avatar

Needed to read this wisdom today - after meeting a new guy, a new love to dive into - I need to remember it's all within me, i don't need to squeeze it out of another. Love can be just the cherry on top. As with anything we want outside of ourselves... true fulfillment is from the inside out. Love your posts, Lavander.

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Lavender 🪷✨'s avatar

Bougie! This comment means the world to me. You are absolutely correct! It comes from within. 💗✨

And if I may, I'd love to share something you reflected so beautifully in your comment. Your energy, your light, your love, your magic, your radiance is what attracts people to you (including this gentleman you mentioned!). This means it is *within* you.

And if we expand on it just slightly more...

If this is true (that it's within us), we therefore cannot "give" love to another. Instead, what we "vibrate" or express is what then "vibrates" within someone else, essentially receiving or *amplifying* the vibration. And THIS is when we FEEL love. This is also why, depending on who you are around or with, they can be of a lower vibrational level than you are (and can they can "feed" off of it, exponentially amplifying theirs), or they can be of a similar vibrational level to you (and this is when it is reciprocal and sustaining, sharing it and providing that warm, gorgeous light).

I want you to know this, because you are meeting someone because it's radiating from what you already have within you 💗✨

You are home. You are light. You are love.

Funny enough I'm finishing up a post on the topic of love, and this gorgeous concept that came to me a couple of months ago. I'd love to share it with you if you are open to it!

I am SO grateful you are here with me on this awesome Substack journey. Thank you for blessing me with your energy and presence. Namaste 🙏✨

PS: Thank you SO much for the kind compliment! 💜✨ sending you so much love and light!

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Bougie Hippie's avatar

I’ve got to integrate that concept and not forget it. …”what we "vibrate" or express is what then "vibrates" within someone else, essentially receiving or *amplifying* the vibration.

Brilliant.

Yes please send me your article on Love 💗 I’m sure it will resonate profusely right now. 🦋

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