â ď¸ A gentle note for your heart: In this episode, I do speak openly, yet briefly, about the domestic violence I navigated as a child. Please check in with yourself, and if this isnât something you feel called to listen to at this time, I completely understand and honor your needs. This sanctuary is always here for you, and the door is open to return whenever it feels supportive for your journey.
Episode Summary
In this episode, I want to share something that has been pressing on my heart; a truth so profound that if you can truly wrap your heart around it, I believe it holds the power to set you free from any burden.
Have you ever felt utterly stuck?
Maybe you keep saying, âI want to do this, but I canât,â or âI donât know why I just wonât let this thing go.â Itâs that confusing, frustrating loop where your conscious mind wants one thing, but your life experience keeps delivering its opposite.
What if I shared with you that youâre simply running a âprogramâ? That âthingâ you canât seem to release... it isnât holding onto you. Your belief system is holding onto it.
I know this might sound wild, which is why Iâm sharing a deeply personal story from my own journeyâa belief forged in childhood trauma that subconsciously dictated my dating life after decades of hosting it in my heart, even when I consciously couldnât feel it.
Weâll explore how our beliefs act as a âcybernetic mechanism,â like an autopilot on a plane or a thermostat in a room, always guiding us back to a pre-programmed set point, no matter how hard we consciously try to swerve.
đ⨠This episode is a gentle invitation to become a loving detective of your own heart.
Weâll talk about how to spot the cluesâthose âpricklyâ opinions or rigid ânon-negotiablesââthat point directly to a belief buried deep within.
This isnât about judgment; instead, this is about discovery. This is about finally inviting your beliefs to the table, thanking them for their efforts in trying to protect you, and lovingly choosing a new truth moving forward.
Iâm so grateful to walk this path with you. đâ¨
Why You Should Listen
This episode is a gentle invitation to move from feeling stuck to feeling free.
Find compassionate clarity on why you keep repeating the same patterns or feel blocked, even when youâre consciously trying your hardest to change.
Connect with a deeply vulnerable story of childhood trauma and subconscious programming to see how these invisible anchors can shape our lives for decades without us even knowing.
Understand the âcybernetic mechanismâ (your âautopilotâ) and have that âaha!â moment of realizing how your beliefs are keeping you locked in place.
Receive loving, practical tools to become a âbelief explorer,â helping you identify the true root of your blocks without criticism or judgment.
Feel empowered to âinvite your beliefs to the tableâ and finally gain the liberation that comes from consciously choosing a new, more expansive reality for yourself.
đ Timestamps
00:00 Identifying and Challenging Limiting Beliefs
03:17 A Personal Example of A Belief I Held (and Why)
06:49 The Foundations of Beliefs (And What They Do)
08:43 Bob Proctor & Dr. Maxwell Maltz on Cybernetic Mechanisms
12:11 Where Our Beliefs Originate
13:52 Invitations to Consider a Belief Unlock These 2 Things
15:01 The Magic of Contemplating Your Beliefs
18:15 My Invitation to You
18:43 One More Example -- âI Want to Lose 10 Poundsâ
20:29 Quick Indicators to Identify Your Inner Beliefs
Show Notes
đĽ Bob Proctorâs âBorn Richâ Seminar on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLVuv8qtX5I89dRY3YYpzGv22fyF4qCfZB
đ Book Mentioned: âI Need Your Love, Is that True?â by Byron Katie
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What is the Beyond the Belief Podcast?
Have you ever paused to truly contemplate the beliefs that shape our world, and perhaps even our very being? Many whisper their truths, or absorb the perspectives of others, yet rarely do we journey deeper. Here, weâre not just listening; weâre gently stepping beyond the surface of whatâs known, into the (often) mystical realms of understanding.
In each episode, I invite you to join me as we explore a beliefâit might be a widely known concept, a forgotten truth, or perhaps even one that feels entirely new or deeply contested. The wisdom shared may come from channeled messages directly from my Guides, from othersâ intuitive taps, from key learnings gleaned from my QHHTÂŽ practice, or even from my own insatiable curiosity, reading, and studying practices.
Sometimes Iâll share my contemplations solo, inviting you into a quiet corner of discovery. At other times, I might pull out my iPad to sketch out concepts, share messages on camera, or simply connect with you through the podcast mic. And often, Iâll invite incredible guests to join our dialogue, as we collectively unravel perspectives and illuminate new understanding.
This space is a sanctuary for exploration, a place to absorb, listen, and learn with an open heart. Weâre shedding the heaviness of ârightâ and âwrong,â and ascending into the lightness of greater connection and expansive knowledge. Each episode is a precious opportunity to find those little gems of wisdom that help you re-weave your own tapestry of truth.
Letâs journey Beyond the Belief.
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As one of my foundational pillars, alongside the Beyond the Belief Podcast, I humbly guide you through the complete transformation and connection within. Learn more about my QHHTÂŽ practice here.
Hello, sweet friend! đ ⨠Yearning for connection and deeper meaning?
Iâm Lavender, a soul storyteller đ⨠and light gatherer ⨠with a deep passion for unearthing the wisdom woven into lifeâs tapestry. đżâ¨ Here, I share my own journey, marked by navigating childhood complexities, 20+ years as a former interviewer (55,000+ hours!), and the quest to remember who I AM. Iâm now a guide of reflection & revelation, having honed my ability to discern human potential and empower others to identify their truth. đŤâ¨
Whether youâre looking to explore and share collective wisdom through captivating stories on âThe Wisdom Withinâ Show đď¸â¨, or youâre ready to dive deeply into your beliefs (via the Beyond the Beliefâ⨠Podcast), your soul contract, or your lifeâs purpose in a personal QHHTÂŽ session, your path to profound discovery begins here. Iâm honored to be your guide and share how a simple truth has become my life motto: Love is the Way đâ¨
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