Episode Summary
Hello, beautiful soul, and welcome back to a conversation that truly landed straight into my heart.
We all know that familiar, sticky feeling of the “comfort zone.” That invisible line that holds us back, that whispers “no, just return, stay safe.” We’re so often taught to fear that feeling of apprehension.
🤔✨ But what if it’s not a stop sign at all?
In this episode, I am so excited to share a profound and loving reframe that my Guides offered me. They call this sensation the “Perimeter of your Paradigm.”
👉✨ This isn’t a static fence designed to keep you small; it’s the beautiful, living architecture of your current reality, and it’s meant to expand.
The most magical part? My Guides explained that this uncomfortable feeling is actually a divine “detector.”
We’ll explore the sacred alchemy of how to know you’re on the right path: when your core—your heart, your center—feels grounded, purposeful, and intentional about an action, yet your mind feels that outer swirl of apprehension... that combination is the divine indicator that you are moving in the exact “right” direction.
We also revisit the metaphor of our boat on the “Superconscious River.” I share what it means to be in the flow (even through rapids!) versus what happens when we take our boat out of the river entirely—a personal story about my own journey with misalignment.
When you reach that perimeter, you are never alone. This is the sacred moment to lean inward and upward, calling on your Guides to repair your boat, offer you gear, or provide a small map.
This episode is a gentle invitation to reframe your fear, trust your grounded heart, and bravely step into your next ascension.
Why You Should Listen
By listening to this episode, you are invited to receive:
A profound reframe for the “comfort zone,” viewing it instead as the “Perimeter of Your Paradigm”—an architecture designed for ascension, not stagnation.
The crucial difference between true, intuitive danger and the sacred “detector” of apprehension that signals your next spiritual expansion.
Clarity on how to identify the divine “YES”: when your heart feels grounded and purposeful, even if your mind feels apprehensive.
A deeper understanding of the “Superconscious River” metaphor and how to know if your boat is in the flow of alignment or stuck in a pond of friction.
Actionable guidance on how to call in your Guides — aka your ‘Soul Support Squad’ for help (for gear, a map, or repairs) the moment you feel that “shaky” feeling at the perimeter.
🌟 Timestamps
0:00 In This Episode…
0:45 Comfort Zone vs. Perimeter of Your Paradigm
3:34 What IS the ‘Perimeter of Your Paradigm’?
8:12 How We Know We’ve Reached ‘The Perimeter’
8:44 And What To Do When We Reach It
10:58 Navigating Challenges on the ‘Superconscious River’
14:26 A Few Personal Stories
18:30 Invitation for Contemplation
Show Notes
📺 From Episode 10 — The ‘Divine Pull’ of the Superconscious River:
📺 From Episode 33 — Earth (Really) is a Video Game!
📺 From Episode 4 - the ‘Floor-to-Ceiling’ Metaphor:
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