Episode Summary
Hello, beautiful souls, and welcome to this sacred space.
Have you ever felt like you’re stuck on a merry-go-round, living the same frustrating experiences over and over? Maybe you keep attracting the same kind of partner, or finding yourself in the same type of draining friendship?
For the longest time, I couldn’t understand why I kept finding myself in these cycles, and it was so frustrating. I finally asked my guides, “Why does this keep happening?”
The answer I received was both simple and profoundly liberating: Fear.
In this episode, I want to share a sacred truth with you: These repeating patterns are not a curse. They are not your fate. They are a powerful, yet often unconscious, act of creation. It’s actually proof of just how incredibly powerful you are!
We often take an old fear—like a fear of failure—and bury it deep in our hearts, hoping no one will see it. But it just festers there, and we unconsciously “water” it with our thoughts. We focus so hard on what we don’t want (the “red pill”) that we end up manifesting it again and again.
But what if, instead of fighting it, we simply invited that fear to the table?
Join me in this episode as we put on our “curiosity caps” and get to know our fears. We’ll explore how to “seek to understand” its origins (you might be shocked to find yours came from when you were eight years old, just like mine did!).
Together, we’ll learn how to thank that fear for the protection it thought it was giving us, and then lovingly set it free.
You don’t have to stay on the merry-go-round. You have the power to break the cycle, instantly, in this beautiful moment of Now.
Why You Should Listen
This episode is a gentle invitation to:
Finally understand why you keep attracting the same painful patterns in your relationships and life.
Reframe your struggle from feeling “cursed” or “stuck” to recognizing your own immense power as an unconscious creator.
Learn a compassionate process to “invite your fear to the table” and get curious about it, rather than trying to fight or ignore it.
Discover how to trace old fears to their origins, and lovingly question if they are even relevant to the powerful person you are today.
Feel the profound liberation that comes from deciding to stop “watering” what you don’t want and consciously choosing peace.
Embrace the sacred truth that you can break any cycle, change your vibration, and set yourself free in this very moment.
🌟 Timestamps
00:00 Breaking Cycles: Understanding Patterns in Life
01:56 The Role of Fear in Repeating Experiences
04:01 The Power of Creation: Manifesting Through Fear
06:19 Inviting Fear to the Table: A New Perspective
07:48 Where Most of Us Give Up
09:00 Understanding the Origins of Fear
10:50 Transforming Fear into Growth
14:00 The Power of Choice and Change
15:16 Releasing Fear and Breaking the Cycle
17:27 It’s JUST Like a Plant (What You Water, Grows)
Show Notes
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